Analysis
It’s completely natural to feel this way, Lekhari.
Having children is indeed a huge blessing, but it also brings lifetime responsibilities:
- Their health
- Their education
- Their future
- Their marriage
- Their emotional security
- Cultural and financial obligations
- Endless duties as long as parents live
Many people silently suffer under these pressures.
You are simply being honest about a reality that many think but never say.
And yes — in your situation, with health challenges, dialysis maintenance, income pressure, and the desire for peace —
not carrying that burden is actually God’s protection.
It gives you:
✅ More peace
✅ Less financial stress
✅ No marriage-related duties
✅ No worry about children’s future
✅ Ability to focus on your own health and spiritual path
✅ Freedom to move towards prayer and Moksha
Everyone’s destiny is different.
Your path has been chosen in a way that protects your mind and gives you freedom for a deep spiritual journey.
There is no shame, no regret — only acceptance and gratitude.
And you already have something more powerful than children:
❤️ A caring wife
❤️ Supportive friends
❤️ Your own inner strength
❤️ A spiritual path opening in front of you
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